An occasional feature from Leah Hakimian, a matchmaker and marriage expert, who finds the best "how we met" stories.

How Michael Met Allison

A mutual love of running enhances a young couple’s relationship.

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“Look for guys by following your hobbies,” suggests wikiHow. “Ask yourself what you really love to do.” Allison Dwyer, 26, was doing what she really loved – cheering for the track team of her alma mater, Emory University. Michael (Mike) Rothbart, 29, was at the Armory Track and Field Center for the same reason. “No way was I there to look for guys,” insists Allison.

Similar backgrounds brought two Emory alums together. Danny Weiss

How Yoni Met Tali

Something good came out of a high school math class, after all.

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Tali Brown and Yoni Kozlowski were classmates at the Melvin J. Berman Hebrew Academy, a co-educational Modern Orthodox Jewish Day School in Rockville, MD. They lived in the same neighborhood and both went to the Kemp Mill Synagogue, where their families were friends. 

The young couple likes to think of themselves as a start-up. Michael Temchine

How Samantha Met Ben

In Israel for a service program, first she got lost, then she found her husband.

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About two weeks after her arrival in Israel, Samantha traveled to the town of Rishon LeZion to visit her friend, Melanie. From the bus station, she called for directions. Melanie, herself a newcomer, couldn’t help, but said that her roommate, Ben, was a runner and knew the city. 

Ben’s cake box held a big surprise. JF Photography/Jessica Frykman

How Jackie Met David

A Moishe House brings two midwestern dog lovers together.

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They were both looking for community.  “That’s what we found at Moishe House St. Louis,” says David Elias, 30. And that’s where they found each other.  In the words of its founders:  “Moishe House is a place for young Jews to connect post-college. Moishe House is a community.” 

David Elias and Jackie Medintz. Tristan Scobie

How Noa Met Yair

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Their story has a bitter beginning. Noa Ofir and Yair Zribi met at a house of mourning. They were both grieving the death of their mutual friend, Oded Ben Sira.

Yair and Noa. Shai Zecharia

How Maria Met Yitz

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Yitz Lauterbach met Maria Kharina in an international relations class at the Rothberg International School of the Hebrew University in Jerusalem. Appropriately, their own backgrounds made for an interesting international relationship.

Yitz and Maria Lauterbach. Courtesy of

How Eli Met Tova

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For eleven years, Dr. Tova Goldfine was an agunah, the victim of a recalcitrant husband who refused to give her a gett (a Jewish divorce), after abandoning her and their 2-year-old daughter. “Never in a million years did I think I could trust another man,” says Tova.

Tova and Eli. Courtesy of Tova and Eli Vermouth

A Girl From Rio Meets A Guy From Brooklyn

Two people who refused to settle reap the rewards of their patience: a wedding, and a baby on the way.

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Can you really find your soul mate?

Guests hoist the happy couple aloft. Leticia Schwartz/JW

How Matti Met Abby

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Abigail (Abby) Duman Baer nods in agreement with the pronouncement at the Chabad website:  “In certain circumstances, it is permissible or even commendable to lie.” She then smiles and adds: “Still, I only told a white lie.” Matti Baer interjects: “Anyway, she didn’t fool me. I understood what Abby was trying to tell me, and I liked what I heard.”

Matti and Abby

How Jesse Met Becca

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Rebecca Stern and Jesse Wenger met in first grade. She was his first love and he was her first love. They were separated a year later when Jesse transferred to a public school in Montgomery County, Pennsylvania and Becca remained at the Solomon Schechter in Elkins Park. Becca, 25, sometimes wonders what would have happened if they had remained in the same class through high school. Would they have ended up as a couple? “Probably not,” she concludes.

Jesse and Becca. Jessie Sandler
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