Matchmaker

An occasional feature from Leah Hakimian, a matchmaker and marriage expert, who finds the best "how we met" stories.

How Jackie Met David

A Moishe House brings two midwestern dog lovers together.

07/23/2015
Jewish Week Online Columnist

They were both looking for community.  “That’s what we found at Moishe House St. Louis,” says David Elias, 30. And that’s where they found each other.  In the words of its founders:  “Moishe House is a place for young Jews to connect post-college. Moishe House is a community.” 

David Elias and Jackie Medintz. Tristan Scobie

How Noa Met Yair

06/04/2015
Jewish Week Online Columnist

Their story has a bitter beginning. Noa Ofir and Yair Zribi met at a house of mourning. They were both grieving the death of their mutual friend, Oded Ben Sira.

Yair and Noa. Shai Zecharia

How Maria Met Yitz

05/17/2015
Special To The Jewish Week

Yitz Lauterbach met Maria Kharina in an international relations class at the Rothberg International School of the Hebrew University in Jerusalem. Appropriately, their own backgrounds made for an interesting international relationship.

Yitz and Maria Lauterbach. Courtesy of yarovinsky.co.il

How Eli Met Tova

03/02/2015
Jewish Week Online Columnist

For eleven years, Dr. Tova Goldfine was an agunah, the victim of a recalcitrant husband who refused to give her a gett (a Jewish divorce), after abandoning her and their 2-year-old daughter. “Never in a million years did I think I could trust another man,” says Tova.

Tova and Eli. Courtesy of Tova and Eli Vermouth

A Girl From Rio Meets A Guy From Brooklyn

Two people who refused to settle reap the rewards of their patience: a wedding, and a baby on the way.

02/12/2015
Jewish Week Online Columnist

Can you really find your soul mate?

Guests hoist the happy couple aloft. Leticia Schwartz/JW

How Matti Met Abby

01/07/2015
Jewish Week Online Columnist

Abigail (Abby) Duman Baer nods in agreement with the pronouncement at the Chabad website:  “In certain circumstances, it is permissible or even commendable to lie.” She then smiles and adds: “Still, I only told a white lie.” Matti Baer interjects: “Anyway, she didn’t fool me. I understood what Abby was trying to tell me, and I liked what I heard.”

Matti and Abby

How Jesse Met Becca

11/04/2014
Jewish Week Online Columnist

Rebecca Stern and Jesse Wenger met in first grade. She was his first love and he was her first love. They were separated a year later when Jesse transferred to a public school in Montgomery County, Pennsylvania and Becca remained at the Solomon Schechter in Elkins Park. Becca, 25, sometimes wonders what would have happened if they had remained in the same class through high school. Would they have ended up as a couple? “Probably not,” she concludes.

Jesse and Becca. Jessie Sandler

How Michal Met Joey

A woman in her late thirties and a man at the mid-century mark refused to give up.

10/07/2014
Jewish Week Online Columnist

“It was just me and my cat,” says Michal Cohen Eckstein, when she was a 38-year-old religious single living in Jerusalem in 2012. But she didn’t give up hope and continued repeating her mantra: I will get married. She also decided to heed the Talmudic notion that if you change your place, you will change your luck. 

It all checked out. Courtesy of Joey and Michal Eckstein

How Daniella Met Tani

09/02/2014
Jewish Week Online Columnist

"We were in the same crowds, but I didn’t see her,” says Tani Guterman. “It’s like Daniella was under the radar screen.”  In the spring of 2012, Daniella Stein was a senior at Yeshiva University (YU) Stern College for Women, and Tani was a YU alum. They both came from Young Israel backgrounds – she, from Lawrence, New York, and he from Staten Island; and they both worked with children with special needs.

Courtesy of Daneilla and Tani Guterman

How David Met Ronit

'Meet your spouse at Hillel House,' even if you're in your late thirties.

08/04/2014
Jewish Week Online Columnist

“Meet your spouse at Hillel House” – was the chant of student leaders at the St. Louis Hillel, according to the late Rabbi James Diamond, the respected executive director of Hillel at Washington University in St. Louis (WUSTL) from 1972 until 1995.  Rabbi Diamond wrote:  “I always regarded matchmaking among the items on Hillel’s hidden agenda. What better way to promote the Jewish future? Marriages are made in heaven, but Hillel helps.”

David and Ronit. Kevin Dern
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