reconciliation

My Worst Enemy's Shiva

08/19/2011
Jewish Week Online Columnist

Q. The mother of my worst enemy just died and I'm not sure whether to visit during Shiva. In truth, I sincerely see this as a chance to reconcile (we haven't spoken in about five years but have a lot of friends in common). My only concern is that he would misinterpret the reason for the visit and kick me out of the house. I really don't want to cause him any discomfort. What should I do?

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman
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