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Let The Healing Begin
Tue, 04/23/2013 - 20:00
Special To The Jewish Week
Rabbi David Wolpe
Rabbi David Wolpe

The tragedies of the past week remind us why religious community matters:

1. In the face of death, religion maintains that life is meaningful. Not only because of the belief that human beings never fully disappear, but because it teaches that this pageant, with all its pain and anguish, need never resolve into despair. Life still matters; we always matter.

2. A religious community provides comfort and help. Long after others have forgotten, the congregation will be there, with everything from meals to a shoulder to a prayer. 

3. God is called “Zochair Kol Hanishkachot”— the One who remembers everything forgotten. In the community too, we read the yahrtzeit notices years, sometimes decades later. We do not let the memory of those we loved slip away. 

4. The long tradition reminds us that others have suffered and endured before us. The bereaved can turn to Job and Ecclesiastes for theology and wisdom; to Aaron and David and Sarah and Naomi for the companionship of those who have lost; to the Rabbis for endless, anguished and deep reflections on the fleetingness of life, the meaning of faith, the promise that is the leitmotif of religious life.

Nothing erases pain; nothing wipes away loss. But a kehilla kedosha, a sacred community, is the beginning of healing our hearts.

Rabbi David Wolpe is spiritual leader of Sinai Temple in Los Angeles. Follow his teachings at

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Dear Rabbi Wolpe. So beautiful your sermon about life and death. I truly believe and have witnessed my Congregation remember the Yartzeit of so many people who passed away. I is comforting to know that we will be remembered and those we love, too.

Great rabi

Good commemts, Rabbi. It's more than a single person. God's car and presence is made known also by the people gathered togeterh in His name. That points out to His presence with us rather than the force of one personality. His love to us is shown in the things you mention, underscoring the bottom line - the some of this life, with its pains and joys, its ups and downs, is not the final story, but God is love and love with God is victorious. I see this worked out all around me